1. Communication
Every 18-year-old you must be able to communicate with strangers, teachers, and people from all walks of life irrespective of affiliation or background. Give them the freedom to communicate freely with people under your close watch throughout their childhood. This means your child will grow to be able to communicate with strangers and handle the communication politely. but a lack of this skill or experience could come with some serious consequences because a young adult might find him or herself in a situation where communication with a stranger might be required resulting in untold hardship. Hence, every child should be encouraged by a parent to build communication and interrelation skills.
2. Primary Knowhow (DIY)
Most parents have resorted to helping their children do every single task not thinking about the consequence of such actions. We drive or accompany our children everywhere, and practically stop them from doing the very basic things they should be able to do. Regularly doing things for them can hinder their ability to be self-reliant. A parent who is often too involved is not in any way helping a child grow. Hence, before your child turns 18, you should help that child to know the fundamentals of independence. Ensure your child can use the basic public services and perform basic adult tasks.
3 Learn a Musical Instrument
This is something every parent should encourage their children to do before they turn 18. Perhaps the biggest reason for your child to learn a how to play a guitar, piano and other musical instrument is to bring the joy of music to others. Not everyone has the ability or resources to learn to play and as an adult. An instrumentalist can bring joy and vitality to every social occasion. While learning to play is healthy and entertaining, it is also mentally stimulating as it can help you child build patience, confidence, self-esteem and other vital skills necessary for integrating properly. The joy of music itself can open up a new world of inspired interests and possibilities for your young adult to become successful.
4. Household Chores
Since the dawn of the 21st century, parents are increasingly excusing their teens from participating in some essential household chores. But the question that should pop out is, what if your young adult finds himself in a situation where he or she will require the use of the hands to carry out the task such as sweeping the floor, doing dishes, or otherwise contributing to a different household? It could be disastrous. This young adult may not know how to satisfy their needs or even make an appropriate contribution to themselves. Learning some household chores will help your child integrate into any society and blend with others in a shared apartment.
5. Problems Solving
We tend to intervene in misunderstandings and protect our children’s feelings quickly without thinking of the psychological disadvantages. Young adults can find it difficult to deal independently with problems and resolve conflicts without an adult’s intervention. The disadvantages are that this carries with them to the university level, which often results in low performance. They could get stuck and give up because they are not used to solving problems for themselves.
6. Teach Freedom
Parents can sometimes form the habit of planning their child’s entire career. They might even find themselves clearing out all obstacles and stumbling blocks between their child and that envisioned future. Thus children develop no understanding of how success comes only by trying and trying again. Parents should teach freedom, and allow children the ability to decide on what to become in future. Forcing a child into what he or she doesn’t want to do can cause resentment. Every 18-year-old should be able to navigate the world without a parent. These acitivities can help prepare a child for the world of independence ahead of them. Featured photo credit: pixabay via pixabay.com
